Hello Again Readers,
If you're anything like me, I imagine you have been both shocked by how progressively earlier each year the Valentines are put up for sale at the local CVS or grocery store. I'm pretty sure it was not yet January 2nd, when I saw the first big box of red, pink, and purple decor at my local Kroger. Of course with all the candy, stuffed animals, and hearts come the Valentines. Usually this sight brings me dread. As a teacher, I typically buy Valentines for my students each year quite early, to dish in on sales, but then I always find myself hastily addressing and creating them on Feb. 13th. Looking at those boxes being put up this year through the eyes of a Reading Specialist, I realized they don't have to be a burden, but instead are a great seasonal opportunity for parents to engage in authentic (real-life) literacy activities with their children. To take and adapt from one of my favorite Dr. Seuss lines...Then the Reading Specialist thought of something she hadn't before! What if Valentine addressing, she thought, doesn't have to be a bore. What if Valentine addressing...perhaps...could have literacy galore!
As a way to help parents who dread those cards, I've thought of five simple, yet effective, activities you can use while Valentine Day Card addressing to help your little readers develop their reading and writing skills!
As a precursor to this list, I would challenge all of my busy parents out there to do 2 things to make sure you don't get caught in the mad rush of Feb. 13th addressing:
1. Buy your Valentines early!
It's not like stores make this one hard, because they've been there since early January! You may as well get them on your weekly grocery trip. Have your kiddo pick out their favorite theme, and pick them up. Having your Valentines early will help you to make this a gradual activity amidst your busy schedules!
2. Request your children's class lists early!
This is especially important if you have multiple children in different classrooms! Typically, teachers send out class lists for addressing a week ahead of time to give you two weekends to work on them. (That's what I typically did anyways!) If you feel you'd need more time, don't be afraid to send a kindly typed e-mail or note to your child's teacher requesting the list. You can detail that although you know it's coming shortly, you'd like a little extra time to practice some literacy activities with your child as they address their Valentines. Teachers can usually send you their lists quite quickly, and I know if I ever got this request, it would have been music to my ears as a classroom teacher!
So with those two important steps out of the way, it's now time to get to those...
V Ways to Add Literacy into Valentines!
1. Read the Cards and talk about them!
Although it may seem simple, this is an often overlooked activity. Have your child open up his Valentines, and read over all the sayings before he addresses them. Usually there are little jokes that you can laugh at with him, or if he's very young, you can help him to better understand. Many have great wordplay in them too, which is a great bonus! Help your child to sound out words they don't know, and enjoy the moment!
This activity is great for building their decoding (sounding out) skills, comprehension, and if you add reading the cards over multiple times, can even help them build sight words!
2. Read over the class list with your child, and talk about the different features in the names!
After you've read over those silly and corny Valentines, read over the class list. You'll be pleasantly surprised that your child can readily identify most of his classmates' names, even by this point in Kindergarten! Patiently help them to read the names they aren't quite comfortable with. After they've read the list to you, you can then play "I Spy" with them with the names. For example: "I spy Michael. Can you find Michael for me?" or to make it easier, "I spy a name starting with an M," and as a request that builds off that one. "I spy a name starting with an Mmmmm sound."
If you're feeling particularly motivated, sing the name game song with your child for all the names "Michael, Michael, Bo Bichael, Banana nana Fo Fichael, Me my mo Michael, Michael!"
By reading over the class list and playing with the letters and sounds, you're giving your child some AWESOME literacy skill practice! They're able to build sight words, practice decoding, build letter recognition, sound-letter relationships (phonics), and phonemic awareness (understanding the sounds in our language). The best part: It's free and fun!
3. Have your child write the class list in different ways!
There are many different ways you can have your child rewrite her class list to help her work on her letter writing and reading skills. Simply give your child an extra piece of lined paper, and help her work through these different lists:
- Write the names in alphabetical order by first name. 98% of teachers will make their class lists alphabetical, but by last name. I have yet to meet one that will give a list by first name, but I'm sure they exist (hence the 2%). This is a great opportunity to help your child work on alphabetizing skills. To help them, you can write the alphabet on the top of their paper, which can be a great reference as they write their classmates in alphabetical order, especially if they're just learning the skill.
- Write the consonants (any letter that isn't a vowel) in one color and vowels (a, e, i, o, u, and sometimes y) in another. Understanding the difference between a vowel and a consonant is an important skill, and having your child practice this with their friends' names is super valuable! For example: Vowels are in pink and Consonants in purple Michael. Have them pick their own colors and go to town!
- Write the names in order from least syllables to most. Having your child practice sounding out syllables is a great opportunity for helping them to build their phonemic awareness! If your child finds this particularly difficult by "clapping out" syllables, you'll save a lot of time and hair by having her count "jaw drops" instead of "hand claps." Have her place her hand underneath her chin and count the number of times her "jaw drops" in a name, that's the number of syllables there are in the word. This works, because every syllable has at least one vowel, and when you make a vowel sound with your mouth, your jaw drops to accommodate the air you use to make the sound. It's much more reliable than hand claps, especially for little learners. Try it yourself with the word "encyclopedia." By counting jaw drops, you'd easily get 6!
4. Address the Valentines in your own fun order!
Instead of just saying, "Okay hun, now copy the list and check off the ones you've done." Use your practice in the previous activities to give them a fun order to address their Valentines in. For example:
- Hmmm, let's start with all the names that start with the Ssss sound!
- Awesome! Now, let's write all the names that have 3 syllables!
- Let's write all the names that rhyme with "sat!"
- Great work! Now, how about we write all the names that have the same first sound as your name!
- Good! Now, let's write all the names that start with the letter that comes after "s."
and so on, and so forth! For your own organization, have your child check off the names after they address the Valentines. This will make sure you don't skip any!
5. Have your child make his own Valentines for family members!
If your child has really caught the Valentine's Day bug, and you have a knack for arts and crafts, have him make his own Valentines as an extension activity and send them to family members. This is a great idea, because it helps your child to see how reading and writing have real-life purposes and it's fun! If you want some great ideas for easy or fancy Valentines, check out Pinterest! Even just making the traditional little paper hearts with messages on them is great too! Have your child choose which Valentine they want to make, get the cutting/pasting/coloring/painting parts done, and then help him to write a message he wants to write to his family. Not only are these precious literacy moments for your child, but they will serve as treasured keepsakes for your family members for years to come!
So there you have it! Five ways to really add quality literacy activities into an otherwise boring addressing Valentines burden! As with all suggested activities on my blog, make sure to keep the mood light, and space out the literacy learning over many days. For example, if you do suggestion 1 on one day, wait a day until you do suggestion 2. You want to keep your child's literacy learning light and fun, and not turn it into a mandated checklist! Even if it's more realistic for you to choose 2 activities instead of all 5, just do that! You know your child and your schedules best! Keep it fun for you too!
Thanks for reading everyone! Have a Happy Valentine's Day, and until next time....
Your in Literacy,
The Reading Specialista
